Nemu artikel ini di Yahoo. Menurut mereka, ada 10 tanda dari cowok yang bisa dijadiin patokan buat ngeliat apakah mereka siap mempunyai komitmen untuk nikah. Ok, gue iseng mau ngomentarin.
1. His friends are married
If you are interested in a guy, check out his friends’ left hands to see if they have wedding rings on.
Research has show that if his friends are already married, he’s more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the “party-with-the-boys” phase, that’s a bad sign.
— Ah, temen-temen gue yang masih single juga doyan party bareng gue dan temen -temen cowok yang sudah pakai wedding ring. Bukan berarti sijomblo itu siap nikah, mungkin artinya dia suka aja party bareng kita.
2. He’s financially secure
Studies show that men who own a home are more marriage-ready. A man who is generally financially stable, and has his ducks in a row, feels marriage is a practical next step for him.
— Welhadalah..kalo situ kenal cowok yang sudah punya rumah dan financially stable, ya mending dipaksa kawin aja. Terserahlah cowok itu siap berkomitmen atau enggak, paksa aja, gak peduli gimana caranya.
3. He pursues you
The guy who is commitment-ready is going to initiate doing things with you. If you’re emailing him and he takes days to email you back, if you have to text him to find out where he is, if you are always calling him, you’re chasing a man who’s probably not marriage-material.
— Hmmm playboy yang doyan party dan juga sudah punya rumah sendiri, juga pasti selalu punya inisiatif doing things with you too. You were saying?
4. He’s willing to wait
Yes, research is telling us what we already know: If a guy gets to know you before getting intimate, he is more likely to commit.
— Kalau dia ber-intimate sama orang lain selagi “getting to know you”, what would you say?
5. He watches DVDs with you when you’re sick
Taking care of you when you’re sick shows that this guy isn’t just in it for the fun and sex. If he wants to be with you in bad times, it’s a sign he’s in it for the long haul.
— Hehehe and so everyone knows the phrase “there is no free lunch”..don’t they?
6. He gets to know your friends and family
A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He’ll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.
— Oh jangan salah sangka dulu. Gue mau tau siapa elu, bukan karena gue siap berkomitmen. Gue cuma mau mastiin bahwa gue ndak tidur bareng psikopat hehehe.
7. He says, “we” instead of “me”
When he switches from “me” to “we”, that’s a sign he’s committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, “I”, “me”, and “my” instead of “we” and “us” in conversations after you’ve been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode.
— Indeed, I rather doing it together with you instead of doing it by myself 😆
8. He’s not afraid of compromise
A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way. A bull-headed guy who needs everything his way or it’s the highway, isn’t ready for the compromise that’s naturally part of a mature relationship.
— Dulu, gue selalu nanya segala sesuatu ke pacar gue. Bukan karena gue siap punya “mature relationship”, tapi karena gue males mikir aja 😛
9. He doesn’t need excuses
Commitment-phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can’t be with you on Saturday night, why they didn’t call, and why they aren’t ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn’t need excuses, he just needs you.
— And why do I need an excuse when I can still have my wildest night with her? 😛
10. He likes being in a long-term relationship
Some men like being in a monogamous relationship and some don’t. The sooner you realize and accept this the better. If he complains all the time about needing space, treats you like a giant burden instead of a gift, and keeps talking about taking things slow, he’s telling you he’s not ready for a commitment. On the other hand, if he’s done with the party scene, enjoys your “couple time” together, and has a strong sense of family, you’ve found a commitment-ready guy.
— Oh well, one thing for sure. I will not having any commitment with a slow, demanding and annoying girl.
Semoga Tuhan mengampuni hobi gue ngerusak artikel orang. *berdoa dengan khusuk*